Why cant we get real friends,bcoz i find friends who only xpect but nvr lend their helping hand unless4 a gain

hey..i think relationships are very imp in our life..may it be with our family or friends..we share a special relation with our friends cos we feel they understand us n are ready to help whehever needed..if not so,,they aren't your true friends..i suggest one should try to be good to everyone no matter what,,you should be good at heart and eventually ,you will certainly realise who your true friends are ..its not necessary that your likes n dislikes have to be same..okie?!!,,,people can be different..just try to interact with ppl!!